TO ALL GUYS

When you tell the girl to cover her legs and sit
like a lady, tell the boy to pull up his pants, they
belong on his waist.

When you invite the girl to the kitchen, make
sure the boy gets that memo too. Something as
important as nourishing oneself should not be
left to women alone. After-all, the world most
renowned Chefs are men.
When you tell a boy that he is smart, then you
turn to the girl and tell her that she is beautiful,
you must have been one of the noise makers
disturbing the class when Mrs Edith was
teaching grammatical gender or words and
opposite in primary school. To be smart is not a
gender specific compliment. The opposite of
smart is not beautiful. Let us teach our girls that
their most prized possession can also be their
head.
When we teach girls how to take care of a child,
let us also teach boys how to do so. Else
tomorrow, we will have boys who know how to
spread their seeds and are completely clueless
when it comes to taking care of the child. It
takes two to tango. From the sex between
partners to knowing the sex of the child to
teaching the child not to engage in sex. It is all
a team effort.
Teaching girls to be virgins is a beautiful thing,
but when we don’t teach our boys the same, it
becomes a very funny joke because the girls
who are losing their virginity had help from the
boys and obviously, work done will be equal to
zero.
When we teach girls to dress decently, let us
teach boys to compliment decency. Let us not
fool ourselves, a gentleman brings out the lady in
a woman.
When we teach girls to respect their husbands
tomorrow, we should also teach boys to love
their wives. I know things are fast changing, but
the last I checked, respect is still reciprocal.
If we all teach our boys to be worthy of
someone’s daughter tomorrow, then you will have
a worthy man marry your own daughter
tomorrow.
There is so much to write. We should all be neutral and not self centered.This simply means I don’t
support unfairness or stupidity, whether it comes
in the form of a man or a woman. Good day